Get a Grip People!!!

Why do people tell you one thing and then when you try doing what they told you to they have changed their minds?! After all this time of trying to hold on to something and falling behind on other expenses, I finally decided to do what was suggested and now I get the "we are not sure we want you to do that". So then it's like ,"what do you want me to do then?" and guess what...No response from two out four of the party involved. Nothing! Give me a fricken break already! So now I am stuck with a payment I can not make, which means I am getting charged late fees and extra finance charges and the taxes are due and they do not want to answer..Trying to be leveled headed and cool about this is becoming very difficult. The main problem is that no one is communicating with me so that I can communicate with those that the money is owed to..So, the original owner is fixing to get the property back because this is not going to be the way my year goes.....